or locker rooms give us a break anymore. The hysterical anxiety about nudity in our

society has gotten so great that nudity has virtually vanished entirely from
these locales traditionally designed to accept nudity. In the doctor’s office we
Stay covered up with our clothes or with hospital gowns, just revealing small
patches of our skin when completely necessary. Locker rooms, saunas, etc., have
lost the tradition of nudity within them. This isn’t even assorted group nudity
we’re talking about. Even among our own sex we conceal our bodies, either by not
being naked whatsoever, or by transforming in a stall, or by keeping a towel attentively
wrapped around ourselves.
Even when we’re bare, we
Conceal our bodies in shame. Every minute of each day.
We swim with clothing on,
Although that’s insane. We sleep with clothes on, even though we are tucked
away under a blanket where no one will see us. We even stay dressed in front of
our spouse–our sex partner–who has already seen us naked in the most intimate
of conditions and with whom more than anyone else we should feel
comfortable being nude. Even in the privacy of our houses we remain dressed. Why?
We do it because body
shame has been so deeply ingrained into our mind that we can not imagine doing
anything else. Nudity under virtually all conditions appears so foreign to us
that we can’t see it as anything but a weird aberration, if not a downright
But we all have a body.
There are billions and billions of human bodies spread throughout this world.
Within both sexes, every one of them is the same as every other. All of us know
what they look like–we all understand what gear they’ve. What on earth do we
Believe we’re hiding from each other?
Actually, we are not
thinking at all when we’ve got a negative reaction to nudity, whether we see
others nude or others see us naked. It’s purely an emotional, irrational
reaction, based on a lifetime of heavy, comprehensive psychological conditioning.
Mental maltreatment.
Isn’t it mental mistreatment
to condition your kids to have feelings of shame and terror only because
someone by chance sees them nude?
Is not it emotional mistreatment
to condition your kids to feel shock, anxiety, or disgust at the mere sight of
a body?
Our bodies are ourselves.
When we feel shame, anxiety, horror over bodies, we are feeling those feelings
about ourselves or about our fellow human beings.
No wonder people have such
a difficult time connecting to each other. We fear each other at an extremely basic level. We
are all driven by nature or God to carry naked bodies with us wherever we
go! Those awful, shocking, black naked bodies! What was God thinking?
How can we maybe
Socialize normally with each other, steeped in approaches like that?
Just what negative
Results result from shaming kids into wearing clothes, and continuing
that brainwashing process until the day they expire?
Children are left in
ignorance. We think it’s a wonderful, educational thing to take children to the
zoo. But what do they do at the zoo? Stare at the naked bodies of creatures. This
is considered very educational. And it is.
Yet kids are never
allowed to stare at the naked bodies of the species that is most important for
them to learn about. Their own–human beings. It is amazing for their sake to learn all
about the bodies of lions and tigers and bears, oh my! But never the body of the
species they belong to and will wed. Never the body they live within
throughout their lives.
Kids do not get to
fully comprehend and accept the differences between the genders. Boys have
Dick, girls have vaginas. This is an undisputed fact of life. But to a lad
who isn’t allowed to learn about human bodies, a girl does not have a
vagina–she has been castrated of her penis. To a girl, a boy doesn’t have a
Dick–he has a odd increase w here his vagina should be. And these are the
boys and girls fortunate enough to have caught a glimpse of the opposite sex nude.
Then we wonder why there
is so much sexual dysfunction in unions?
Children do not get to
become comfortable with the process of puberty before it happens. When their
bodies start shifting, it’s a traumatic thing. Why? Because it is natural for
puberty to be traumatic?
Certainly not! It’s a
Totally natural part of the human life cycle.
It’s wounding because
they are not prepared for it. Is that not mental maltreatment?
They start growing hair
around their pubic region and within their armpits. What is that all about? For
boys, nudis family and fuck together (is it diseased?) and hair starts to grow on the face.
For girls, the vagina begins to bleed (am I injured?) and breasts being to
enlarge on their torsos.
How many horror stories
have there been about kids who were totally unprepared for these changes? Is
that not child abuse, to enable kids to enter this span of life unprepared
simply because their parents are embarrassed to discuss it (thanks to their
own mental brainwashing from their parents)?
But even with children who