Questions From a Non-Nudist Mom On Nudit Etiquette, Home Nudism, & Children

We recently received an email that we believe would be interesting to share. She’s looking for penetration and opinions so please make sure to leave comments on this particular site and never on Facebook (so she can see what people believe).
A Non Nudist Mother Needs Our Help!
Here is her e-mail:
I ‘m writing to you hoping for the comments regarding a scenario in my own life involving nudity. (Poll your friends, if you need also, I ‘m joyful to have greater than one individual’s opinions.)
I am attempting to discover whether my outlook on a situation must be analyzed. I also would like to get a feel if my beliefs and feelings are due to my being almost alone living and interacting in a textile environment.
Home Naturism And Conduct Etiquette
We recently received an email that we feel would be interesting to share. She’s searching for penetration and opinions so please make sure to leave comments with this website and not on Facebook (so she can see what folks believe).
Here is her email:
I ‘m writing to you trusting for your input regarding a situation in my own life including nudity. (Poll your buddies, if you want also, I will be happy to have greater than one individual’s opinions.)
I ‘m trying to determine whether my viewpoint on a scenario needs to be analyzed. I also would like to get a feel if my beliefs and feelings are due to my being nearly completely living and interacting in a fabric environment.
This can be the scenario.
Due to many tragic circumstances in my life previously year or so, I’ve become homeless. I ‘ve a 12 year old son that’s currently living with my sister, which was my choice and I made it in order to provide him with a safer and more secure living situation than I can currently provide (as I ‘ve been staying with friends in their own small flat).
For background, whether it is relevant or not, I was never exposed to much family nudity growing up. I recall seeing my mum unclothed on occasion, but not my dad (and I ‘d two sisters, but no brothers). I never thought about it much, but raised my two sons and daughters in the same manner since I never was comfortable just walking around the house fully bare. That said, I’ve been nonchalant, yet private, about being naked in front of them.
As each one of my kids reached puberty, they became more private about being unclothed around me and each other. I never told them that it was unacceptable to be naked around the house. I’ve told them that the human body is natural and amazing, but largely it was not something I ever thought much about. Even now, with my youngest son (aforementioned twelve year-old boy), if we’re in exactly , and I need to switch clothing, I ‘ll say something like, “I’m going to change now, just so you know, if you need to choose to look the other way.” Another day he was visiting, and he needed to change clothing, and asked me to leave the room. I lightheartedly blown off his overly humble request, and told him that I’d look the other way if he wanted me to, and I did. He was good with that.
I have understood that two of my friends are more comfortable with social nudity than I am and it hasn’t been an issue. I view it as an individual choice. I was told the very first time I ever came with their house, that they have a clothing optional residence. No biggie. The wife is more likely than husband to walk around completely nude. The husband has kids from an earlier marriage, and their policy has been that to prevent problems that could be caused by his ex wife. When his children are visiting, the wife will wear at least a tank top and panties when in view of his children. When my son has come to visit, the policy has been the same.
This couple is purchasing a big house. Several months ago they encouraged myself and my son to dwell there with them too and for as long as I wanted / desired. That was awesome and generous and I have been really looking forward to being with my son again after annually of living apart.
A couple of weeks ago, the wife asked me whether I planned on speaking to my son about living in a clothing optional environment, or whether I ‘d just manage it as it happened (such as seeing her being nude around your house facing him). I was really surprised, as I had assumed that the current policy regarding nudity around kids would continue. That is what I was used to and hadn’t thought about things potentially being distinct. I talked to the husband alone and he supposed the same. It was apparent at that point, that there was a communication breakdown and that they had to work out between the two of them what their policy was going to be. I waited for them to do so and come talk in my experience about it once they were on exactly the same page.
After they spoke, the wife said that she never thought that straightforward nudity would be an issue for me or my son. Nevertheless, now that she’s conscious of them, she said that while she’d like to guarantee that she’dn’t be nude around him. She didn’t feel comfortable to swear that she’dn’t forget to put on minimal clothing when he was around. To be clear, she said she’d attempt to remember, but that she couldn’t assure. She didn’t need to guarantee something unless she knew she could do it. She said that there have now been times, she had almost walked out of her bedroom naked when her husband’s children were seeing. Her husband quickly reminded her to cover up and she did.
Since that conversation, I have been studying the naturist and naturist lifestyles. I’ve been reading views and whatever I could find on the internet to help me better comprehend the situation. It has led me to you.
My concerns go beyond my son’s dad. I ‘ve family members who wouldn’t hesitate to call CPS (Child Protective Services) if they became conscious that my son was living in a home where a female adult was nude around him. I could likely find myself in family court for detention issues over this and I’d like to get more info before I make any selection.
The problems that I am having difficulty understanding are as follows:
The thought that a person could somehow “forget” to put on garments is extremely foreign in my experience. Is this something that some nudists have experienced in the past?
I have issues about how challenging it’d be for my son to adapt to a clothing optional environment at his age (puberty).
Does it make a difference that it would not be his mom who’d be naked, but an unrelated adult woman whom he hasn’t spent lots of time with?
I ‘m surprised that she did not imagine that it’d have repercussions for me or my son – Is this common on the list of nudist community?
I desire viewpoint and do not know how much my concerns are due to my cloth life experience. Any feedback, thoughts, or opinions would be very, very much valued. I’m trusting your experiences would be helpful in my experience in some way.
So there you’ve got it. is reaching out and attempting to comprehend. Let’s take a moment and attempt to help her!
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